The Lovers Reversed

The upright Lovers represents a symbiotic relationship, or the synchronicity between one’s head and heart. And yes, it means a happy, loving relationship.
Reversed, it is mostly negative (sorry). And yes, it often means breakups and divorce. But those are just some of the meanings. Figure out what best applies to your situations:

1. Divorce, disharmony
2. Inner turmoil - a disconnect between what your head knows and what your heart wants
3. Conflict, imbalance, arguments
4. A need to consider ones values and ethics

 
Questions answered by The Reversed Lovers:
Who? Your ex, someone you disagree with
What? A conflict
Where? Divorce court; the bar; a dating app
When? May to June; Sagittarius astrological sign; A slow burn
Why? “We exhaust ourselves more from the tension and the consequences of internal disharmony than from hard, unremitting work.” ~Stephen Covey 
Yes or No? No
 
What should I clean?

• The dining table
• The kitchen
• The area with the most junk

     
Where are my keys?

• The place you were last alone

The Lovers Reversed as:
…an action?

• Realign your lifestyle with your values
• Apologize to your partner

 
…a place in your house?

• The pantry
• The family room

 
…a place in your city?

• The dog park
• The office
• A nail salon

 
…a place in the world?

• Reno, Nevada
• The Maldives
• Belarus

 
…something to eat?

• Dried fruit
• A TV dinner
• Fajitas for one

 
…a color? Cerulean, turquoise, black
 
…a movie theme? Divorce, values misalignment

• Marriage Story
• The Girl on the Train

 
…a new career?

• Divorce lawyer
• Matchmaker
• Sole proprietor, freelancer
• Auditor

Possible Major Arcana combinations with The Lovers Reversed:
Upright Fool: Naivete in relationships
Reversed Magician: Lack of skills, or a mismatch of talents
Upright Priestess: Valid mistrust of a partner
Reversed Empress: nosy person; a falling out
Upright Emperor: Structure favors one partner
Reversed Hierophant: A falling out with structures or the church
Upright Chariot: One partner has all control
Reversed Strength: a relationship is insecure
Upright Hermit: Single by choice; online dates
Reversed Wheel: Bad luck in love
Upright Justice: Truth breaks up a partnership
Reversed Hanged One: One partner sacrifices themselves far more than the other partner
Upright Death: An end to a bad relationship
Reversed Temperance: extreme lack of balance
Upright Devil: A narcissist
Reversed Tower: Disharmony destroys a company
Upright Star: A need for communication
Reversed Moon: The head and the heart are miles apart
Upright Sun: A happy single life
Reversed Judgement: Lack of self awareness
Upright World: Opposites attract; odd union
 
Before any card: A misalignment of (card)
After any card: disharmony; imbalance
 
The Major Arcana represent significant life events. The Lovers Reversed could indicate:

• ​A divorce
• A failed business partnership
• Misalignment between the head and the heart

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